What happens once I register? - Help Me Find

What happens once I register?

 

IMPORTANT, Once you have registered your details are checked, edited and uploaded. This happens once a week Friday afternoon every week. If you register either side of the uploading day, it may take one full week to have your profile displayed on this site. Please do not be concerned.

 

 

When you register your details, before they go on line your details are vetted and certain information maybe removed in order to confirm with the data protection act.
On the Help Me Find website, your amended details will allow you to submit a search for the target you wish to seek.

If you feel you have a match, you are then able to send that profile (match) a private email via HMF admin. This message will be sent to HMF admin in order to be checked against the data protection policy guide lines. All personal details will be removed, admin will then forward the email to the target and so communication can start between the two profiles. Security questions will be introduced by HMF admin to see if there is a match. At all times HMF admin will be acting as an mediator to ensure the safeguard of the profiles. At no point will your email address or any form of contact details be shown to either party.

Once HMF admin are sure the two profiles are a good match we will instegate a private message board which can be viewed by the parties involved and by HMF admin. Once this process is complete and we are sure of all of the facts we will ask both parties in question if they wish for their personal contact details to be exchanged inorder to keep in touch with out the aid of Help Me Find admin.

At this point we then advise the use and consultantion of Adoption Counsellors in order to handle the actual match. HMF admin can advise the details of such counsellors within your area and send confidentually the details, held by HMF admin, of your profile and that of the person you believe to be a match.

On no occassion does HMF admin try to match or force any action on any of it's profile holders.

HMF admin always recommends the use of adoption counsellors to every protential match enquiry once it reaches a certain stage in the process.

HMF does not offer or charge for any consultations nor does it favour or recommend any specific adoption counselling service.